People approach me for various reasons either relating to their own well-being, their family's or their Home, but the most common reason of all I come across is finding a quick fix without needing to spend time & energy. And this is something I wanted to pen down for quite sometime, because a lot of people are out there, just willing to try everything available to quickly fix whatever unpleasant that has been showing up for them. Now what I generally find in these cases I tell you,
1. Desperation: they just want the unpleasantness - the discomfort to be gone "forever & fast" and I get it. But Rome wasn't built in a day, right! I'd like to tell them.
2. Reservation: they're doubtful and hardly have any faith that what so ever the healing method they're indulging themselves will work because they are just trying it out as a "last resort" without any confidence in themselves and probably that is how they have tried everything else that everyone had been suggesting them so far.
3. Externally driven: they see how others have benefited from something and sign up for those things in the hope that it will bring the same results to them. "If it worked for them, it might work for me too" is the kind of attitude.
4. Lack of commitment: they usually aren't prepared to invest their personal time & energy into the process and that's again because they have little to no faith in the process itself or simply they are time poor. Old habits die hard, they say.
This is what I call "problem attitude", it doesn't allow us to fully believe in our own selves - Mind, Body & Spirit - and will not let healing happen the way it needs to happen. After all, healing is an internal job.